What it can do for your relationship at this stageĪt the early stages in your relationship, you want to figure out whether your sexual wants and needs mesh. Wherever you’re at in this new relationship or situationship, there are dirty questions you can ask. Or maybe you’re still trying to parse out whether you and your new boo are a good match, sexually. Maybe you and your recent Right Swipe just entered R-rated territory. Maybe you’ve smooched but not smacked the sack. If you’re newly talking or seeing each other How would you feel if I read you a paragraph? What can I do to help you de-stress right now?.I’d love to kiss you and see if it leads to more than that.How would you feel about taking a shower together and seeing where it goes?.Here, what you ask is going to vary depending on whether you and your partner are already intimately/physically/emotionally connected and you want to up the ante. If nothing was off-limits, what would you want me to do to you?.What do you want to watch me do to myself?.Tell me, what would you be doing to me if I was there?.Remember last week when you pinned me against the wall? I’m going to narrate it to you from my point of view, if you’ll let me. “Asking questions can be really hot fun over video and phone because you’ll be able to see and hear their excitement,” says Howard. If you could have your way with me, what would you do?.Tell me, what would you want me to do to help you come? Baby, if I was with you I’d want to feel you orgasm around me.Do you know how it works? I’d love to tell you about it. I think it could be fun to use together.How long do you think you would last before begging me to touch you if I was wearing this with you?.If I was with you, which part of my body would you want to lick first?.If you get the green light, you might ask: You bet your butt a leading question has the power to take the conversation from “OK” to “OH!” With nudes, lewds, or sextingįirst things first: Before you send a racy pic or text, ask permission!Īs Texas-based sex educator Goody Howard, MSW, MPH, puts it, “You never know if someone is with their kids or sitting by their grandmother in hospice.”Īsking permission allows the person to confirm whether they’re locationally/emotionally/spiritually in a place to receive your smutty sexts. Crash course: If you’re trying to get someone in the mood
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